I have been thinking a lot about this . My mom had me when she was 24 . I am 31 and she is 56 … she has been with me for a while fortunately and she is still young somehow. I never wanted kids but now I changed a lot my mind and I do not want to be an older mom . I do want time with a baby exactly to see them growing while I am still healthy . But you know what ? My grandfather is 89 and is healthier than my father ! We never know what the future holds for you so don’t think things will be that bad :)